Wednesday, February 9, 2011

Queen Sacrifice

Queen’s sacrifice

唐岳 (Táng Yuè), China Daily European Weekly, January 28, 2011

Nurturing a chess champion is a task teetering from amiable dictatorship to forgoing personal ambitions

Yale law professor 蔡美儿 (Amy Chua) raised plenty of hackles recently with her description of the Chinese Tiger Mother — a subject that set off divisive debate and earned her death threats. But while the rest of the world marveled at Chua’s authoritarian ways and even doubted the truth of her narration, Chinese parents and children identified with her story — in varying degrees perhaps, but always with fervent empathy.

侯逸凡 (Hóu Yìfán) is the current Women’s World Chess champion, the youngest ever. Photo: 杨世忠 (Yáng Shìzhōng)/China Daily.

What Chua described is an exaggerated version of what goes on in every Chinese family that respects scholarship and cares about the children’s future.
In most cases, however, the parents also subscribe to another set of Chinese values — that of striking a balance.
Take China’s latest chess prodigy and world champion 侯逸凡 (Hóu Yìfán) and her mother 王茜 (Wáng Qiàn). While her mother is the robust pillar behind her discipline and achievements, there is also a lot of support and sacrifice in the nurturing process.
侯 (Hóu), 16, was born in 兴化 (Xīnghuà), a relatively smaller city by Chinese standards of about 1.5 million people in 江苏省 (Jiāngsū province).
Like most only children, she was allowed the luxury of many extra-curricular activities at an early age.
But, she showed no interest in calligraphy, singing lessons or playing the 二胡 (èrhú), a two-stringed fiddle, and deliberately broke several ink-stones so her parents would stop forcing her to practice calligraphy.
They finally tried chess, to see if it would appeal to her already obvious intellectual capabilities.
“She fell in love with chess”, says 王茜 (Wáng Qiàn), 43. “But we didn’t expect her to become a national champion, let alone world champion”.
Her child was then barely out of nursery school.
The expectations grew as 侯 (Hóu) soon outpaced her peers. In just two years, 王 (Wáng) realized her daughter needed better instruction and she took the young child to 童渊铭 (Tóng Yuānmíng), a famous chess coach in 济南 (Jǐnán), 山东省 (Shāndōng province).
童 (Tóng) agreed to coach the girl, but it meant 侯 (Hóu) would have to move 700 km north to 济南 (Jǐnán), then a 15-hour train journey away. 王 (Wáng) contemplated her options for one week, and finally made the decision to quit her job as a nurse and go north with her 7-year-old daughter.
It meant she would have to give up a decent income and leave her husband, 侯雪健 (Hóu Xuějiàn), in 兴化 (Xīnghuà). He would stay on at his job as a procurator at the local government offices to support the family.
Her decision was based on her daughter’s precocity. 侯 (Hóu) would continue to go to school in 济南 (Jǐnán) and because she had started school at 5, she was two years ahead. Even if it did not work out and they had to return to 兴化 (Xīnghuà) after two years, 王 (Wáng) figured there was nothing to lose.
“But what about yourself? You had to give up your career and you were only 33”, I ask.
“I think it was the normal thing for any parent to do. When you find your child has a special gift, you just cannot stay and watch it all go to waste”.
But mother and child would soon be moving, again. Two years later, 9-year-old 侯 (Hóu) had already won the Under-10 World Championship and was about to become the youngest ever to be recruited into China’s national team — in 北京 (Běijīng).
The tiger mother was about to be up-staged by the dragon coach. Training would be strict and very disciplined, and the pre-teen would be groomed to the best of her ability.
It was not an easy decision this time for head coach of the national team, 叶江川 (Yè Jiāngchuān).
“There was some opposition when she entered the team because she was so young and her mother had to live with her, which could disrupt management”, 叶 (Yè) tells China Daily.
“But I found she was unusually talented. She had excellent potential and training with the high-level players in the national squad would definitely help her exploit that ability to the fullest”.
For 王茜 (Wáng Qiàn), there was no hesitation. By now, she knew her daughter’s future was in chess. From 2003 to 2007, she lived with her daughter in a 10-square-meter dormitory room at China’s Chess Academy, and they could only see 侯 (Hóu)’s father a few times a year.
The sacrifices paid off when young 侯逸凡 (Hóu Yìfán), at the age of 12, became the youngest player in the Women’s World Chess Championship in Yekaterinburg and the Chess Olympiad in Turin in 2006. She also became the youngest national champion in China.
In 2008, she was the youngest finalist in the history of the World Championships, losing to the Russian Alexandra Kosteniuk in the final in Nalchik, Russia.
As part of the preparation for last month’s World Championships in Turkey, 侯 (Hóu) played in a men’s national competition in May with the approval from the organizers, and pitted her skills again in June against the best 10 male players in China.
To top it all, she played six games against former world champion Anatoly Karpov in a series of matches organized by the Chinese Chess Federation at 三亚 (Sānyà) in 海南 (Hǎinán). She lost 2½ to 3½ but gained “a lot from the master”.
Her coach explains her success.
“With her talent and diligence, she would have won the world championship sooner or later, but it would definitely not be so soon if not for the training and the competitions”, 叶 (Yè) says.
As the regimental training in the national squad sculpts her daughter into a world champion, her mother still supports her unquestioningly in the background, and it was maternal encouragement which boosted 侯 (Hóu) before her championship game.
“I told her it took (Alexandra) Kosteniuk seven years to go from runner-up to champion. And that she need not feel pressured”. It worked. 侯逸凡 (Hóu Yìfán) defeated defending champion Kosteniuk to take the title.
侯 (Hóu)’s parents may sacrifice everything to make sure their daughter gets the best training possible, but they do not press her to win every game.
“The media labels her a genius and enjoys listing all the records she has broken, but that’s not what I care about. I just want her to live a happy life”, 王茜 (Wáng Qiàn) says. “If she wins, I’m happy of course, but if she doesn’t make it, I’m still proud of her because she is a kind-hearted and humble child”.
The sacrifices are beginning to pay off, both with 侯 (Hóu)’s list of trophies and a family reunion. Her father quit his job three years ago and came to join them, and they now live in a small apartment near the chess academy.
“He thought hard for a long time before coming to 北京 (Běijīng). Our child was without her father since she was 7 and we just decided to make up for it as soon as we could”, 王 (Wáng) says.
“She’s already 16 and more independent. Who knows? Perhaps in a couple of years we can go back home”.